101 Ways to Create Parasympathetic Mind
In clearing out stuff, I came across something from my career in mental health: a laminated rack card called “101 Ways to Cope With Stress.” It now being many years later, I read through it with new eyes. I realized that most of the recommendations were ways to calm the Sympathetic Nervous System response. Some were unrealistic, some not helpful, and some (for me, anyway) would create more stress. So, I decided to take the idea and add what I have learned from working with SCENAR and the Parasympathetic Nervous System for the last 6 years. (This list is not in any order.) Morgana Morgaine, life coach and humorist, defined Parasympathetic Mind best: “Relax, Rest, Release, Restore.”
If you have other helpful ideas about creating Parasympathetic Mind, please feel free to comment. (For more information about releasing your own neuropeptides and balancing your autonomic system, go to the Healing Tips page.)
- Take 10 minutes before you get up in the morning and before you go to bed at night to quietly focus on your breathing. To keep your mind focused you might count your breaths up to 5 and then start over. Take any moments in daily life when you are waiting (red lights, grocery store lines, etc.) as an opportunity to remember your breath. Simply take a deep breath and notice your body relax.
- Have a SCENAR treatment or lay in the Multilayered Therapeutic Blanket. Learn what Parasympathetic Mind feels like.
- Prepare for the coming day by thinking of those things you will be doing that make you feel good.
- Reach for any thought that makes you feel better in any situation that feels stressful. Pay attention to how you feel. If you feel bad, find a thought, any thought, that makes you feel better.
- Forgive negative people and move on to interactions that feel better to you.
- Have fun on purpose. Seek to feel joy.
- See challenges as opportunities to see things differently. Look for the silver lining.
- Regularly write down what you appreciate in as much detail as you can.
- Go outside and enjoy the sunshine or curl up with a good book when it rains.
- Learn to care for and comfort yourself.
- Make it your intent to find and hang on to any and all things that inspire you, especially thoughts.
- Make a list of your personal attributes that you value and using 3 or 4 of them write a Mission Statement for your life.
- Notice negative self-talk and stop. Then remember your Mission statement.
- Use affirmations and/or mantras to remind yourself that you want to feel good.
- Practice grace when under pressure.
- Feeling good activates the Parasympathetic nervous system. The Parasympathetic nervous system activates good feelings.
- Pay attention to the moment. A moment missed is a moment lost and unconscious moments make for unwanted consequences.
- Remember that stress is an attitude. Remind yourself that you are NOT a victim.
- Quit judging or trying to “fix” other people. It only makes you feel bad.
- Look for options. In any conundrum, ask yourself, “What are my options here?” You will quickly discover that options give you a sense of freedom and control.







