
A friend of ours, Raye Rufty, has At Your Service, a custom decluttering, organizing, and concierge business. She sends out tips from time to time about how to de-stress your life by simplifying your personal environment. This one seemed so pertinent to the art of creating the sense of spaciousness in life that is characteristic of Parasympathetic Mind, that I wanted to share it.
We’ve all heard about and strived to “live within our means”. What does this have to do with clutter and disorganization? Consider these pursuits:
- “live” within the SPACE you have (the size of your home, closets, drawers, purse, tie rack, desk filing space, etc.) meaning to scale back if you are bulging at the seams,
- “live” within the TIME you have (to clean your home, answer your emails, mow your lawn, do your laundry, maintenance of home/office equipment, file documents, etc.) meaning look at how things own us instead of us owning them,
- “live” within the ENERGY you have (to run errands, do chores, clean or mow or launder, love on people, etc.) meaning if you are running of out energy, rethink your priorities,
- “live” within the FINANCES you have (surely you have already thought about this) and scale back,
- “live” within your VALUES and PURPOSE in life (to not overspend, over discipline, over compensate, under-plan, under-estimate, etc.) which will feed your soul … it’s the opposite of a diet, and
- “live” within your personal realistic EXPECTATIONS (of all of the above).
All of these are resources we have: space, time, energy, finances, values/purpose, expectations, etc. I have observed that when I live outside of my means on any of these categories, I am doing a disservice to myself, my loved ones, my clients, and everyone around me.
When we become aware of the importance of encouraging calm, not chaos, in our lives, we are choosing to engage our Parasympathetic Mind. Living within that state encourages health, peace, and happiness.